Advice to the Graduates
Words of wisdom from a selection of commencement speeches
compiled by Ann-Marie Imbornoni
It's commencement time for many college and university students across the country. To mark the occasion, we've gathered a variety of humorous, insightful, and oftentimes surprising words of wisdom from distinguished speakers in recent years.
When I was growing up in Richmond, Virginia, in the 1950s, segregation was the law of the state. . . . I was not allowed to grow up thinking of myself as a victim, and if you look anything like me, neither should you. Just let us all agree on what the rules are, judge fairly, and reward results consistently.
Union, New Jersey
May 24, 1990
You will never make a good leader unless you have learned to follow. On those initial journeys when you are asked to pull your oar while another leads, learn what it takes to be a team player. Learn how to get along with others. Learn what loyalty and honesty are all about.
Worcester Polytechnic Institute
May 23, 1992
Serve your country. . . . Convince your government that the real threat comes from within, just as Abraham Lincoln said. Governments always forget that. Insist that we support science and the arts, especially the arts. They have absolutely nothing to do with the defense of the countryâthey only make our country worth defending.
Case Western Reserve University
May 23, 1993
Who are the rich? . . . A rich person is someone with a home and a modicum of education and a chance, at least, for a job. A rich person is one who believes that if he makes a decision it will have some effect, at least, in his own life, and who believes that the police and the judges are on his side. Those are the rich people.
May 8, 1993
What is going on here? . . . I think a lot of this is due to the phenomenon of compartmentalization of our lives. We have become disintegrated. Our lives are split up so that when we go to business, when we go to work, our task there is to earn a living. Our task there is solely economic. We're told to leave or values at the door.
Poughkeepsie, New York
May 23, 1993
If you see a need, do not ask why doesn't somebody do something, ask why don't I do something. Hard work and persistence and initiative are still the non-magic carpets to success for most of us.
St. Louis, Missouri
May 15, 1992
Let yourself regraduate every four years. Celebrate what you have done. Admit what you are not doing. Think about what is important to you and make some changes. If you give yourself a chance to move on, you can do anything.
University of Michigan
Ann Arbor, Michigan
April 30, 1994
I believe most passionately that in each one of you lies a Jefferson, a Lincoln, an Eleanor Roosevelt, a Mother Teresa, and a Martin Luther King, Jr. None of these great men and women accepted the failures and inequities of the world in which they were born, and neither should you!
The University of Hawaii
December 20, 1992
The privilege of attending so fine a university as this one must bear with it an unceasing responsibility to use your knowledge and training for improving the lives of others.
University of Virginia
May 21, 1978
Words like "leadership," "resolve," and "determination" are just words until they are brought to life by men and women who dedicate themselves to the profession of arms and the security and well-being of the nation.
United States Military Academy
West Point, New York
May 31, 1990
Get all the knowledge and skill you can, in whatever professions you enter; but remember that most of your education must be self-education, in learning the things women need to know, and in calling up the voices we need to hear within ourselves.
One of the most important tools is skeptical or critical thinking. Put another way, equip yourself with a baloney-detection kit. . . . Part of the job of education is to be able to tell what is baloney and what is not.
May 22, 1993
Do not confuse passion with success. Passion is the joy of getting there. Success can be a trap. I think this country and our culture glorifies and deifies the goddess Success to the point that whenever we try and fail, we hear our own inner voices say, "Shame on you." If there is any shame, it is in the fact that we inflict such heavy punishment on ourselves.
June 3, 1984
One more point. This is the last period of time that will seem lengthy to you at only three or four years. From now on, time will pass without artificial academic measure. It will go by like the wind. Whatever you want to do, do it now. For life is time, and time is all there is.
May 17, 1987
P. J. O'RourkeChange magazine, May/June 2008